What Causes Low Sexual Desire in Women, and What Treatment Can Help?

Dear Lina kaipeng ji,

We understand that this may be upsetting for you, especially when you feel less interested in being intimate with your husband. Please do not feel embarrassed or blame yourself. Changes in sexual desire are common in women, and there are treatments that may help once the cause is understood. You deserve to feel comfortable and supported.

What could be causing this problem?

A reduced interest in sex or a feeling that your vagina has become loose can happen for different reasons, such as :

• Hormonal changes: Menopause can cause vaginal dryness and changes in sexual desire.

• Vaginal dryness or pain: Sex may become uncomfortable, making you less interested in intimacy.

• Childbirth and ageing: These can affect vaginal tissues and pelvic floor muscles.

• Stress or tiredness: Worry, anxiety, low mood or exhaustion can reduce sexual desire.

• Medical conditions or medicines: Diabetes, thyroid problems and certain medicines can affect sexual interest.

What should you do?

1. Consult a gynaecologist: The doctor can check for vaginal dryness, hormonal changes, infection or pelvic floor problems.

2. Use a suitable lubricant if you have dryness: A water-based lubricant may make intimacy more comfortable. A vaginal moisturiser may also help with ongoing dryness.

3. Avoid irritating products: Do not use scented vaginal washes, douches or unprescribed creams.

4. Talk openly with your husband: Explain how you feel and take things slowly. You should never feel pressured to have sex when you are uncomfortable.

5. Ask about treatment: Depending on the cause, your doctor may suggest pelvic floor exercises, treatment for dryness, or other suitable options. Hormonal treatment is appropriate for some women but is not suitable for everyone.

   
   

When should you see a doctor?

Please arrange an appointment if this problem continues, affects your relationship, or causes discomfort. Seek medical advice promptly if you have unusual vaginal discharge, itching, pain, or bleeding after sex. Any bleeding after menopause should be checked by a doctor.

Wishing you and your family good health always.
Warm regards,
Team HexaHealth